SPOUSE CHECK
DO YOU FIND A CHANGE IN YOUR SPOUSE BEHAVIOR?
The Extra Marital Affair is one of the most common problems in our fast changing world. So-called 'Best Friend' a spouse getting involved with can be a neighbor, colleague, a domestic helper, or even a close relative.
Most men and women are now having affair not because they are in love. Women, who have an affair, might just be for friendship or the affair might just give her the opportunity to find out more about her sexuality. Similarly, men are also having an extra marital affair for sex. The relationship can be intermittent, short term or long term.
Sexual capers can happen in the office, car, hotel rooms, parks, seaside, car parks, over a game of mahjong or anywhere. However home and place of work is the main source now. In our opinion, client should look out for close friends or colleagues of their spouses as the potential partners for the extra-marital flings, because of the perceived safety and availability.
The AIDS scare is another factor that has made spouses feel safer to have an affair with someone they know, rather than to look for prostitutes to satisfy their sexual desires.
If an affair is exposed, people will usually give a second thought to the marriage and the children and, with patience, they try to get over it.